I seem to be the first one here. This group appeals to me because I lost my husband of 30 years just two months ago. So I really have been left behind. I am just now trying to do things alone and piece together a new life. I'd love to communicate with others going through the same thing. I have been fortunate because one of the things my husband left me with was friends. I have had lots of invitations and phone calls checking on me and caring. But there are days that are so empty that I feel very lost.