I am now a grandmother of 4.....1 girl who is the oldest and 3 boys. I love these grandchildren.....who are so very special. We have 3 grown children - 2 boys and 1 girl (who was in the middle). They are close in age....being 3 1/2 years apart between the first 2 and 19 months between the 2nd and 3rd and 5 years between the oldest and youngest. What is also interesting is that each of our children graduated from high school, college, got married and started a family all in the same order (as their birth). They were all in their mid 20's when they married. They each had 1 child until my younger son and his wife had their 2nd baby in 2013. My older son is now divorced and he gets his daughter every other week-end and on special days as well - (holidays, birthdays and celebrations) In the past 15 years I have learned more about the *system* than I ever dared to know. Our family has been *exposed to and had a bird's eye view of how innocent people can get tangled up in a web through no fault of their own*....I have also learned how some people *who have inside connections (or thought they did at the time) can cause LOTS of PROBLEMS*. I have prayed more during this time than I have my entire life....(this was a good thing though) .....My husband is a cancer survivor so I know and understand quite well how *prayers can help* when no one else knows what to do or how to settle issues. Sometimes it does take a while for GOD to answer prayers but eventually HE does as HE sees fit.